The Paramountcy of Personality in Poetry

T.S. Eliot once said that poetry is “an escape from personality” and that it should be considered apart from the poet’s personal life.  However, what happens when poetry is NOT separated from the poet’s life, but instead it is considered very much a part of its significance and meaning?  Eliot is not wrong in his conviction, but he is not necessarily right either.  One problem in the exploration of this issue is that there is no right or wrong answer, but perhaps that makes it all the more interesting to discover.  The broad and sweeping question to examine is, is all poetry autobiographical and if so, why is this important?  Yes, all poetry is autobiographical in one way or another because the issue in the poem would not be written about if the poet did not have some direct or indirect connection to it.  It does not matter how large or small the connection is, without some extent of autobiographical focus, it may seem that the poet does not have much authority over the issue, and that is why this topic is an important one in the genre of poetry.  There are certainly counterarguments to dispute the argument that all poetry is autobiographical to some extent; there are schools of critical opinion that deny the relevance of it, as there are also problems that arise from poetry being directly related to poets’ personal lives.  What I’ve discovered about critics is that something that they may find to be meaningful, others may find to be pointless, and I think that is extremely important to keep in mind when studying a poet and his work.

The poet’s personal experience in their poetry makes it more accessible for readers.  Sometimes adding personal experience to a poem is the only way to tell a story, or express whatever it is the poet wants to convey.  It is difficult for poets to veer away from personal experience when writing poetry because usually real people and real events inspire it.  Therefore, emotional reality and literal truth are sometimes difficult to keep out of a poem.  On the other hand, one problem that may present itself in the 21st century is a continuous focus on the individual life of the poet.  A perpetual focus on the way autobiography performs in poetry runs the risk of easily becoming too narrowed and limited.   Coleridge once said, “To please me, a poem must be either music or sense; if it is neither, I confess I cannot interest myself in it”.  This raises the question of whether a poem must possess some popular intrigue in order to be accepted by its readers.   Goethe’s term “unfathomable,” which he defines as ‘that which we cannot exhaust, that which we cannot come to the bottom of’ rather than that ‘which rebuts our understanding’.  This quality of the ‘unfathomable’ is what poetry must possess to be able to stand the test of time, and that which we cannot exhaust can be found or come to the bottom of can be found in the personal.

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Nothing Lasts Forever

Nothing lasts forever.  Seems like common sense, right?  Then, why are we somehow surprised when a relationship ends or a job ends or a dog dies?  I suppose it’s because God made us emotional beings and we would not be human if we did not experience emotions of sadness or anger when we lose something we love. I guess that is the beauty of life.  The word that is coming to mind right now is acceptance.  We must accept these beginnings and endings in order to fullly live our lives or else we will remain paralyzed by our own inability to move on.

Nothing lasts forever.  Instead of interpreting that as negative, let’s make the choice to let it free us.

Fall in love with your life today.

Flashback…

She was in a blackout.  Wandering around the dirty, isolated area between 10th Avenue and the Westside Highway of Manhattan searching for the police precinct where she thinks her recently arrested boyfriend is.  Luckily, it’s spring so she doesn’t freeze in her skimpy club outfit, but it wouldn’t matter much anyway.  The lack of blood circulation to her brain from drinking the entire bottom shelf has temporarily disabled her physical senses.  Later, she will learn that these blackouts which have become a normal part of her weekends are actually the beginning stages of brain damage.  She’s traveling light since she misplaced her purse at some bar with the word “Dilemma” in it and all she has is her cell phone, which she can’t use because the screen is too blurry.

She’s back in her Upper Westside apartment when he comes barreling through the door.  She’s not sure how she got home with no purse and no money.  She barely finishes the thought before she’s knocked to the floor and his hands are around her neck.

Before and After

Where would I be without You today?

broken,

bruised,

bleeding,

and far, far away.

 

A sadness envelops me.

It permeates through my skin,

breaks through my bones,

sinks like an anchor to the bottom of my heart.

It’s cold and damp.

 

You released my neck from deathly hands,

you lifted my obssession.

You sent Grace and Mercy to meet me,

and I walk with them, never turning back.

Holy, Holy, Holy.

You, You, You.

It’s all about you.

A reason, season, or a lifetime?

As trite as it may be, I do believe that people come into our lives for a reason, a season, or a lifetime.  Over time, I have learned to apply this to my past relationships.  Most of them ended horribly, and I walked (or crawled) away feeling like I added another failure to my belt.  I would feel like all the time invested in that relationship was a waste of time because it didn’t ‘work out’.  That attitude makes for an empty, meaningless life.

Today, as I’ve grown closer to God, I see that every person he’s put on my path, even if only for a short season, was put there for a reason and a purpose.  It can be incredibly difficult to see the lesson through the loss and the pain, but with time and space comes perspective.

If you believe that God has a plan for you, you must also believe that God has specifically designed each of your relationships.  I recently experienced the ending of another relationship and my first reaction was that I had failed again and wasted another X number of months of my life on something that wasn’t meant to be.  Then, when I turned to God in prayer and reflection, I realized how much I learned about myself, my wants, my needs, and my non-negotiables in a partner.  I also saw for me how God does for me what I cannot do for myself.  It never ceases to amaze me how He takes care of me.  I am reminded by these types of situations that sometimes I don’t give God enough credit.

Our faith must work in and through us 24 hours a day.

Merry Christmas, Everyone!

Hohoho!!

blessings

His Plan

“Learning to wait on God is one of the hardest but most important aspects of the Christian life…It assures that you will act in His timing, not your own.” – Experiencing God, Henry Blackaby

How many of us would say that patience is one of our best attributes?  Maybe a few can say that, but certainly not me!  I have definitely improved in the patience department now that I’ve incorporated the Serenity Prayer into my life, but I must admit I still struggle with it.  Waiting in line or in traffic requires one kind of patience, while waiting for something you want or waiting for God to answer your prayer requires another.

Learning to wait on God doesn’t just take patience, it takes Faith – believing in what you cannot see.  If we lack Faith, we may say ‘I want it now!’ and get angry with God for not giving it to us on our timeline.  ’It’ can be that job, that promotion, that marriage proposal, a baby, or whatever it is you so deeply desire.  However, that type of reaction or attitude reflects spiritual immaturity (which I can be guilty of on any given day).   When I deeply desire God’s word and when I can peel away my self-centeredness and need for instant gratification, I uncover my Faith.  While in prayer, I can hear God reassure me that He has a plan for me.  He doesn’t give me the details because I don’t need to know them.  All I need to know is that I am His and He is working in my life when I step back and let  Him.   It has been my experience that the things I want for myself are pitiful compared to what God wants for me.  Prior to having a personal relationship with God, I sold myself short when it came to hopes and aspirations for myself.  God is limitless and so is what He can do in my life. 

“Stop your fighting – and know that I am God.” Psalm 46:10

God has a plan for you.

A Mountain Getaway

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He Must Come to You

For great is your love toward me; you have delivered me from the depths, from the realm of the dead.- Psalm 86:13

As I sat down to write a few minutes ago, I put on the Elevation Worship CD, We Are Alive, to try to lift something inspirational out of me.  Track 2 came on, Progress A.  It’s 30 seconds of Pastor Steven preaching, not even a song, which caught my attention.  I’ve learned in the short time I’ve been attending Elevation Church that when Pastor Steven speaks, I listen.

This is what struck me; he says, ”You cannot get to God, He must come to you. There is no other way.”

And then I opened up my Bible, which I’m very new at, and it opened to Psalm 86.  Verse 13 hit me in the gut.

Not only did God come to ME, but when he came to me he delivered me from the depths of my self-made hell.  I honestly don’t know how other people come to find God without experiencing a life altering moment.  Maybe it’s just me, but He had to literally save me from death in order for me to see him, I mean really see Him.  I grew up always knowing that there was a God, I just didn’t KNOW him.  Like Pastor Steven said, there is no other way for me to know God until He comes to me.  I am so grateful that He did.

Are you still searching for Him?  Has He found you yet?

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